Mentally tough

In a relationship... the ger is supposed to be treated lye one. No matter how strong she appears to be... ultimately, she is still a ger. I dun lye it when I have something troubling mi, my bf leave mi alone to sort out my thoughts.


Wtf? I hate it.

And when i encounter problems, i dun need my guy to give mi solutions. Wad i need are empathy and love to reassure mi that i am not alone. Many a times, i feel that solutions are theoretically correct... but impractical. Some things are just not within ur control and providing solutions jus make mi feel stupid. Wad makes them think that whatever he thinks of... had not cross my mind before?

It just doesn't work! Dumbo.



Bossy / dominant nature

If u think i am... i can say dat maybe u're right. But a more appropriate word to describe mi is stubborn. It is very hard to change my views and beliefs. I certainly dun follow the crowd and i dun allow ppl to brainwash mi.

But in a relationship... i juz want to be led. I just wan to be e blur blur one following e bf. I dun wan organise too much and force everything to go my way. It's tiring... and bad for the man's ego. In short... the guy has to be the guy-act lye one, and protect his ger.



Super independent

This one... i really dunno how to explain. Basically, if a ger is really that independent, then she doesn't need e guy already. But if both are in a relationship... den both should always be there for each other.

Say: if e ger wans to go sentosa, then the guy should accompany her instead of asking her to jio her own frens to go. Once or twice... it's ok. But if everytime e guy pushes his gf away, giving reasons lye "tired/busy/i dun really lye dat activity." Den wad's e point of being together?

There bound to be times dat one misses the other more than the other misses the other. (Wahahaa) To them... wad is considered an appropriate time to meet up? When their dick is itchy issit? To me, meeting up for no particular reason is the reason to meet.



When Mingli got to know, i was quite guilty for keeping him in e dark-deliberately. After all... wad's there to hide? But, it is to protect myself. Even though as time passes, there's a huge possibility that he might discover for himself that i indeed possess some of these traits. But at least it is better than to tell him upfront. (eg: wad traits do u think of when someone tells u she a dragonboat captain?).


I think "military" comes to mind. HAHA...


He treats mi lye a lady now and i dun wan it to change... subtlety after he knew...


I juz wan to be treated lye a lady. Why so difficult?

Mentally tough

In a relationship... the ger is supposed to be treated lye one. No matter how strong she appears to be... ultimately, she is still a ger. I dun lye it when I have something troubling mi, my bf leave mi alone to sort out my thoughts.


Wtf? I hate it.

And when i encounter problems, i dun need my guy to give mi solutions. Wad i need are empathy and love to reassure mi that i am not alone. Many a times, i feel that solutions are theoretically correct... but impractical. Some things are just not within ur control and providing solutions jus make mi feel stupid. Wad makes them think that whatever he thinks of... had not cross my mind before?

It just doesn't work! Dumbo.



Bossy / dominant nature

If u think i am... i can say dat maybe u're right. But a more appropriate word to describe mi is stubborn. It is very hard to change my views and beliefs. I certainly dun follow the crowd and i dun allow ppl to brainwash mi.

But in a relationship... i juz want to be led. I just wan to be e blur blur one following e bf. I dun wan organise too much and force everything to go my way. It's tiring... and bad for the man's ego. In short... the guy has to be the guy-act lye one, and protect his ger.



Super independent

This one... i really dunno how to explain. Basically, if a ger is really that independent, then she doesn't need e guy already. But if both are in a relationship... den both should always be there for each other.

Say: if e ger wans to go sentosa, then the guy should accompany her instead of asking her to jio her own frens to go. Once or twice... it's ok. But if everytime e guy pushes his gf away, giving reasons lye "tired/busy/i dun really lye dat activity." Den wad's e point of being together?

There bound to be times dat one misses the other more than the other misses the other. (Wahahaa) To them... wad is considered an appropriate time to meet up? When their dick is itchy issit? To me, meeting up for no particular reason is the reason to meet.



When Mingli got to know, i was quite guilty for keeping him in e dark-deliberately. After all... wad's there to hide? But, it is to protect myself. Even though as time passes, there's a huge possibility that he might discover for himself that i indeed possess some of these traits. But at least it is better than to tell him upfront. (eg: wad traits do u think of when someone tells u she a dragonboat captain?).


I think "military" comes to mind. HAHA...


He treats mi lye a lady now and i dun wan it to change... subtlety after he knew...


I juz wan to be treated lye a lady. Why so difficult?